The other day at the gym, one of the ladies who comes to classes regularly asked if her gym family might consider donating personal care, clothing, and fun items
for kids. It was for a Samaritan's Purse "shoebox" fundraiser she was involved in to ensure kids get items they need, as well as toys and games, for Christmas.
Just asking this one question
resulted in bags and bags of items ready to pack into the donation shoeboxes. It was heartwarming to see.
Yes, this lady could have just filled one shoebox on her own and sent it off. But
instead, she asked for help and was able to send MANY boxes off for this very good cause.
When we actually make it a point of asking for help, it's much more likely that we'll get
it.
Maybe you normally do all of the cooking at home, but are having an exceptionally busy week. Perhaps simply asking a spouse or older child to do the cooking this week would result in
you having one less chore to do each night.
Perhaps you're not sure how to use certain features on your phone. If you have a teenager in your family, or one of your neighbors has a
high-school-aged son or daughter, I bet asking him or her would result in you getting your technology questions answered.
Maybe you're not feeling well this week and snow is in the
forecast. One of your neighbors may be willing to get that snow off of your driveway if you ask...and especially if you're willing to help them out when needed.
Don't underestimate others
and their willingness to help you. Don't overestimate the "inconvenience" you might be perceiving by asking someone to lend you a hand.
Ask for help when you need it. Provide help when you
can. Both are factors in living an organized, happy life.
