The holidays are approaching fast. That usually means
more "stuff" coming into our homes. More things to find places for. Before that happens, let's prepare by decluttering a few things.
1. Toys: Your kids will probably receive new Christmas toys. Now is a good time to declutter toys they no longer play with. If they are in good shape,
donate them to a thrift store for another child to enjoy.
2. Wrapping paper: Do you have some wrapping paper you are not likely to use? Maybe kid-themed paper, but no kids to wrap for anymore. Or wrapping paper that you simply do not like. It's ok to donate or toss it.
3. Food that has expired or has been in the fridge or pantry too long. How old are some of those condiments in your refrigerator? Or maybe you need to just use some things up to make space. Plan some meals based on what is in your pantry or fridge.
4. Holiday decor you no longer use or want: Once upon a time, that wreath was beautiful, but a few years on the front door and exposed to the elements has made it look pretty tired. Refresh or replace it.
5. Things sitting on your dining room table that need to go elsewhere. You will probably be eating a holiday dinner at that table. Clear it off now, and keep it clear, so you will not have to find a place for the clutter right before dinner.
6. Gifts you have never used: Re-gift or donate that blouse or vase you do not like. The gift surely wasn't given to you with any strings attached and wasn't meant to make you feel guilty for holding onto it. Next time, exchange gifts you don't like soon after receiving them for things you will love and use.
7. Kitchen tools you have duplicates of: This can be done at any time of the year, but holidays are an excellent time since you may be in the kitchen more, and you can see what tools you do not need.
8. Clothes that are outgrown, worn out, or no longer loved: Kids' clothes especially need sorting through every few months, and before the holidays is a good time. You may find party/holiday clothes in your own closet that you can declutter.
9. Linens: If you have sheets and towels you would not want to use for guests, declutter them. Animal shelters are often glad to get towels and old blankets.
10. Finally, declutter some emotional or mental clutter you do not need. Let go
of the need to have the perfect holiday or cook the perfect dinner. Release the "shoulds" and overreaching expectations. Worried about relatives, who frustrate you, that are coming for holiday dinner? When they begin to wear you down, feel free to allow yourself to go into another room, so you can take a deep breath, count to 10, and count your blessings...so you can come back to the table with a smile. Don't argue with them. Try to change the subject.
Many of these decluttering suggestions will be quick . Others may take a little bit more consideration. But they will go a long way toward making your Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa or whatever you're celebrating less stressful and more enjoyable.
P.S. This is a quick reminder that today is St. Nick's Day. If you observe this event, plan on giving your loved ones a treat or two to celebrate today. 
