GON Reader Question
I Can't Bear to Think of These Crumbled in a Box
Maria, I am a 72-year old faithful reader for many years and now need your help.
I'm the "keeper of things" in my family system. Our house contains literally thousands of items from 3 to 4 generations. My husband is an only child; I'm the only daughter of two.
This year my goal is to significantly release
much of this so that:
1. We will be ready to move to a retirement community within 10 years
2. Our three children will not face an overwhelming load
someday
I plan to work in categories. The first one I tackled was linens. There are about 1,000 pieces of crochet, embroidery, lace, linen, damask and homespun. There are doilies, pothoders, bridge and dresser sets, round and rectangular table toppers, pillowcases, cloth napkin sets, and tablecloths.
I have kept a few with special memories, or that I'm currently using. The rest are on a long table in the basement. I've invited my children to come take what they want (which I doubt will be much).
I treasured these items for the hours of handwork they represent, and for the ancestors who made them. I know they could be recycled into other things, which would take the rest of my life and I would still need to get rid of them.
My question is this: Where can I find buyers for this category of things? I
am hoping to find people who appreciate handwork. There are many places I could donate them locally, but I can't bear to think of them just jumbled in a box and sold for nothing.
Any suggestions you have for this dilemma and future categories of things?
-- Linda Alley
Response from Maria Gracia
Hi Linda,
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with me. It sounds like you're taking proactive steps towards downsizing and simplifying your belongings, which is a commendable
goal.
Given the sentimental value and craftsmanship of the items you mentioned, finding the right buyers who appreciate handwork is important. Here are a few suggestions to help you navigate this process:
1. Online Marketplaces: Websites such as Etsy, eBay, or even specialized forums and Facebook groups focused on vintage or handmade items could be excellent platforms to find buyers who appreciate the craftsmanship of your linens. You can create listings with detailed descriptions and photographs to attract potential buyers.
2. Local Craft Fairs or Markets: Consider participating in local craft fairs or markets where handmade and vintage items are appreciated. This allows you to showcase your collection directly to potential buyers who value the craftsmanship and history behind each piece.
3. Antique or Vintage Shops: Explore nearby antique or vintage shops that specialize in selling handmade or unique items. They may be interested in purchasing or consigning your linens, providing them with a new home where they will be appreciated.
4. Online Communities:
Join online communities or forums dedicated to vintage or handmade items. Engage with members, share photos of your linens, and inquire if anyone is interested in purchasing or trading for them.
5. Theater Groups: Donating your linens to local theater groups for use as props is a wonderful idea. Theater groups often
rely on donations for props and costumes, and your linens could find a new life on stage, preserving their beauty and history in a different context.
6. Museums: Investigate museums or historical societies that may be interested in adding your linens to their collections for display. Many museums showcase textiles and
handcrafted items as part of their exhibits, preserving and honoring their cultural and historical significance.
I hope this gives you some ideas for your treasured handmade items!
