You've got this fantastic vision of a beautifully organized home dancing in your head, but there's just one tiny hiccup – your partner or kids aren't exactly on
board with your tidy dreams. It happens to the best of us and can be very frustrating at times.
The good news is, there are ways to gently steer everyone towards the land of organized bliss without causing you to give up or risk a household
meltdown.
1. Have a Heart-to-Heart: Take a moment to sit down with your partner or gather the family, and openly (and kindly!) share your feelings about the value of maintaining an organized home. Keep the tone light and friendly, highlighting the positive impacts it would bring to everyone
involved.
Instead of blaming or singling out individuals, approach the conversation with empathy and problem-solving.
For instance, instead of saying, "Jack, if I've asked you once, I've asked you a dozen times...stop tossing stuff on the kitchen table," you could try, "Jack, I'd love for the kitchen table to look more presentable. Can you help me think of a solution to manage the items that end up there to help address this issue?" This approach fosters collaboration and encourages finding solutions
together.
2. Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: Turn organizing into a family project. Get everyone involved by making it a game or setting up a reward system. When everyone feels like they're part of the team, it's amazing how quickly things can get done.
Perhaps even go somewhere as a family (out for ice cream or to the movies) when the basement is organized...or after everyone helps out with a family project, like a garage sale. 3. Compromise Like a Pro: Remember, it's not just about your way or the
highway. Be open to compromises and find middle ground solutions that accommodate everyone's preferences. Maybe your partner agrees to keep their hobby supplies in designated bins, or the kids agree to tidy up their toys before bedtime.
4. Lead by Example, Gently: Show, don't tell. Let your impeccable organizing skills
do the talking. Start with your own spaces. Your loved ones may be inspired to follow suit. Lead by example without making anyone feel pressured or judged.
5. Acknowledge Their Efforts: OK, so maybe you haven't been given a crown for all of your cleaning and organizing efforts over the years. It's OK. You know you
deserve it, so allow that light to shine within yourself.
That being said, when trying to get others to do their part, positive reinforcement goes a long way. When your partner tidies up after themselves or your kids remember to put their shoes away, be sure to
give them a high-five or a heartfelt thank you.
A little acknowledgment can go a long way in encouraging continued efforts.
6. Keep Calm and Carry On: No doubt, there will be setbacks and moments of frustration. Take a deep breath and keep moving forward. Patience is key.
Remember, the journey to an organized home is just that – a journey.
Embrace the ups and downs, celebrate the small victories, and above all, cherish the moments spent with your loved ones along the way.
