GON Reader Question
Someone gifted me a box of chocolate, but I'm on a health kick right now. Should I just eat it? Should I give it back?
-- Jenny in Saratoga Springs, New York
Response from Maria Gracia
Hi Jenny,
It’s always wonderful to receive a thoughtful gift. Sometimes, we receive gifts that we don't care for or can't use. Then we end up holding onto them out of guilt or because we feel that getting rid of them is wasteful. This can lead to unnecessary clutter, feelings of stress or obligation, or even the
idea that we have to eat an edible gift even if it's going against our health goals.
It’s important to remember that the true value of a gift lies in the kindness and thoughtfulness behind it, not in the physical item itself. When you receive a gift that doesn’t
align with your needs or preferences, it’s perfectly okay to find an alternate use for it. Doing so can actually enhance the gift’s value by bringing joy to someone else or supporting a good cause.
Here’s some advice on how to handle the situation
gracefully:
1. Accept the Gift Graciously: First and foremost, don’t give the gift back. Accepting it graciously shows appreciation for the gesture and maintains positive relationships.
2. Share at the Office or a Church Meeting: Bring the chocolate to work or to a church or club meeting and share. It’s a great way to spread some joy and allow others to enjoy the treat in a communal setting.
3. Save for Special Occasions: Store the chocolate in your
freezer. They’ll keep well and be ready for special occasions, such as a family holiday gathering or a celebratory event, like Thanksgiving. They'll keep in the freezer for about 6 months.
Put them in an airtight bag. When ready to defrost, place in the fridge for
24 hours then move to room temperature for 24 hours.
Hope this gives you a few ideas!
