Life can sometimes feel like a runaway train, speeding up with every new responsibility,
task, or worry. Add a messy home to the mix, and it can feel like you’re on the verge of derailment. But before you throw up your hands in defeat, let's slow down and approach things from a different angle.
1st: Embrace the Small Wins
One small win at a time.
One drawer organized.
One shelf decluttered.
One moment of peace.
Instead of focusing on the mountain of things you need to do, start by celebrating the small victories. Clearing just one small space can create a ripple effect of calm and
control. It’s a gentle reminder that progress is possible, no matter how tiny the step may be.
2nd: Give Yourself Grace
Don't worry about stumbling a bit along the way.
You don't need to have all the answers.
Take those moments to breathe and regroup.
Move at your own pace.
We often put so much pressure on ourselves to be perfect, to have everything in order, to check off every box on the to-do list. But giving yourself permission to be human, to feel what you’re feeling, and to take things one moment at a time can help ease that
pressure.
3rd: Remember, You’re Not Alone
You don’t have to go through this solo.
Reach out to a friend or family member...or to me!
Ask for help when you need it.
Share your struggles—it’s okay to lean on others.
Opening up to those around you can bring unexpected comfort and support. Sometimes, all it takes is knowing that someone else is there for you, ready to lend a hand or just listen.
4th: Focus on the Present
What can you do right now?
What’s the
next small thing that can make your day a little easier?
What will help you feel more at peace today?
By shifting your focus to the present, you can reduce the overwhelm that
comes with thinking too far ahead. Taking care of what’s in front of you right now can make everything else seem more manageable.
Life is a journey, with ups and downs, messes and clean slates. The important thing is to keep moving forward, at your own pace, with kindness toward yourself. Celebrate the small wins, give yourself grace,
lean on others, and focus on the present. By doing so, you’ll find that the chaos starts to recede, and peace begins to take its place.
P.S. If you're hoping to begin getting rid of your clutter, my resource, Goodbye Clutter, can help!
