I was just talking to someone who shared a story about her Christmas Eve plans. She’s heading over to her daughter’s home for the holiday and naturally asked what
her daughter would be cooking. Her daughter’s response? “We’re having it catered…pizza!”
At first, this might sound a little unorthodox for Christmas Eve. But when her daughter explained her reasoning, it all made perfect sense: She’s incredibly busy, her family spends the holiday enjoying football and each other in the living
room...instead of sitting around a formal dining table, and everyone was in the mood for something different from the usual holiday fare. And you know what? That’s OK.
There’s often unspoken pressure during the holidays to follow certain “rules” or expectations. Turkey and ham must grace the table. Families must gather around with
perfectly coordinated table settings. But life doesn’t always fit neatly into those molds.
Whether it’s a lack of time, a desire for simplicity, or a family craving pizza over pot roast, traditions don’t have to look the same for
everyone.
When we let go of rigid expectations, we create room for new, meaningful traditions that fit our current circumstances. What matters most is spending time with the people we care about—not what’s on the menu.
If you’re looking to embrace a holiday that feels more “you,” here are a few tips to get started:
1. Keep It SimpleIf your time is stretched thin, consider catered meals,
takeout, or even a potluck where everyone contributes. The goal is to reduce stress, not add to it. If you're having pizza, a pizza cutter is a wonderful
time-saver! 2. Choose Joy Over Perfection
Whether it’s pizza or a full traditional spread, focus on what brings your family joy. If that means eating on the couch while watching football, then grab the paper plates and lean
in.
3. Communicate Expectations
Let your family and guests know ahead of time what to expect. This helps manage any surprises and ensures everyone is on the same page.
4. Create New Traditions
Sometimes, breaking away from the old leads to fresh ideas. Maybe this year it’s pizza; next year, it’s a taco bar. Make it your own.
5. Don’t Apologize for Your Choices
There’s no rulebook for how to celebrate the holidays. Whether your dinner is catered, homemade, or store-bought, what matters is the spirit of the season.
All of this is a
reminder that everyone’s circumstances are different. What works for one family might not work for another, and that’s perfectly fine. The holidays should feel joyous, not like an obligation to follow rules. So, if pizza on Christmas Eve feels right, then pizza it is!
At the end of the day, it’s about creating memories, not stress. So,
here’s to embracing a holiday season that fits your life, your family, and your style. Whatever’s on the menu, it’s the time together that will be remembered.
