GON Reader Question
Dear Maria,
My husband just passed away. He was a pastor since 1989 and has printed letters and books of great spiritual meaning. Now I'm in a dilemma what to do with all the collection?
I wish to make a museum of it, but how? I wanted to make a library where his books can be read or taken? Should I just dispose of them as people are no longer interested?
-- Gladys Dsouza
Response from Maria
Dear
Gladys,
First, I want to extend my heartfelt condolences to you. I can't imagine how deeply you are feeling your husband’s absence, and I’m moved by your desire to honor his legacy. What a beautiful testament to the life he lived and the work he dedicated himself.
It’s clear, from your letter, that his writings and printed materials have been meaningful—not only to him, but to those he ministered to.
Here are a few ideas for how you
might move forward:
1. Start with a Memory Corner: Perhaps begin with a dedicated memory area in your home, church, or community center. You can display a few of his most powerful writings, a framed photo, and some items he used in his ministry. Even a single bookshelf can be the beginning of a library that honors his
work.
2. Speak with Local Churches or Faith-Based Centers: There may be smaller churches, seminaries, or spiritual centers that would be honored to preserve some of his work or make it available to others. You might ask if they’d be willing to create a lending library, host a reading room, or even include his materials
in their archives.
3. Digitize His Work: If you’re worried about space or longevity, digitize his writings and sermons. These could be shared online or through email newsletters, reaching people far beyond your local area. His words could continue to inspire new generations. 4. Create a Memorial Book
Donation: Another idea is to select a few of his most meaningful books and donate them—with a label inside that says “From the Library of Pastor Dsouza”—to libraries, hospitals, prisons, or retirement homes. A quiet way to let his legacy live on.
5. Host a Community Day: You could invite friends, family, or
church members to come and look through the collection. Let them choose books that resonate with them. You might be surprised how many people still deeply appreciate spiritual writings, especially those created with heartfelt intent.
6. Let Yourself Keep What Matters Most: And of course, keep the pieces that speak most
to you. You don’t need to hold on to everything to preserve his memory. A small box of his letters, a few books that moved you, and his handwritten notes may be the most sacred parts.
Gladys, thank you for sharing your heart. The love and care you have for your husband’s work is already a museum in motion. Whether you build something
grand or keep it simple, know that his legacy is safe with you—and your choices will be the right ones.
With sympathy and encouragement,
