Jun 8 - When You’re the Only One Who Cares About Organizing

Jun 8 - When You’re the Only One Who Cares About Organizing - GON in 5 Minutes Newsletter

Published: Sun, 06/08/25

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by Maria Gracia

June 8, 2025

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When You’re the Only One Who Cares About Organizing

If you’ve ever stood in the middle of a messy room, exhausted and overwhelmed, and thought, “Why am I the only one who cares about getting this place in order?”—you’re not alone.

It can be a frustrating, even lonely feeling. You might have big dreams for a clutter-free kitchen, a more peaceful bedroom, or finally digging your way out of the garage chaos… but your spouse seems unfazed, and your kids leave a trail behind them wherever they go.

You’ve tried asking. You’ve tried hinting. You’ve even tried doing it all yourself, hoping they’d eventually notice and chip in. Still—crickets.

So what can you do when you feel like you are the only one committed to making your home a more organized, functional space?

Let’s start with this: You are allowed to want things to be better. And you don’t have to give up your goals just because others aren’t jumping in with both feet.

Here’s how you can move forward—and feel supported—even if the rest of the household isn’t quite there yet:

1. Stop waiting for a cheer squad: It’s nice when others recognize your efforts, but don’t make your progress dependent on applause. Give yourself credit after every small win: a drawer tidied, a shelf decluttered, a corner that’s finally clear. Track it in a journal, snap a photo, or simply sit down and enjoy the results. Self-support counts.

2. Communicate, don’t accuse: Instead of saying “No one helps me!” (which often puts people on the defensive), try sharing how their involvement would make you feel. Example: “It would mean so much if you’d help me clear the counter tonight. I feel less stressed when it’s tidy, and I’d love to enjoy the evening with you afterward.” Be specific and kind—and keep the ask small.

3. Choose one non-negotiable zone: Pick one space in the house that is yours to keep just the way you want it. Maybe it’s your bedside table, your bathroom cabinet, or your corner of the living room. Let others know this is your calm space. When the rest of the house feels chaotic, this area can serve as your reset button.

4. Focus on habits, not big overhauls: Instead of trying to get the whole family to adopt your entire vision, start with one small daily habit. A family shoe rack by the door. Coats hung up right away. A 5-minute tidy before dinner. These little routines are more likely to stick—and might even catch on.

5. Hold a light-hearted family meeting: Let everyone know how important a peaceful home is to you and that you're working toward small changes, not a perfection contest. Ask: "What’s one area we all think could work better?" Getting their ideas can create a tiny sense of ownership—and even resistance can soften when people feel heard.

6. Let go of their clutter, claim your calm: You may not be able to make your spouse love organizing. You may not convince your teen to fold their hoodies. But you can work on what’s in your control—your stuff, your space, your mindset. Progress in your own zones can be a ripple that quietly spreads.

7. Find support elsewhere: I'm here for you (email me)...and I have social media groups you can join for community support. Follow a motivating podcast. Share your weekly goals with a friend who “gets it.” Sometimes support from outside the house is exactly what you need to stay inspired inside the house.

Even if your organizing journey feels solo at times, it doesn’t have to be a struggle. You’re already taking the first step just by recognizing what you want your home to feel like. And little by little, with consistency and clarity, you can create that kind of space—whether or not anyone joins in.

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The Shifting Seasons of "I Do"

While June has long been associated with weddings, October has recently taken the lead as the most popular wedding month in the U.S. In 2024, 17% of weddings took place in October, followed by 15% in September and 12% in June. This shift is credited to cooler temps, fall foliage, and the cozy, romantic atmosphere that autumn offers.

That’s a big change from tradition! For generations, June was the go-to wedding month. The roots go back to ancient Rome, when couples wed in June to honor Juno, the goddess of marriage and childbirth. There were also practical reasons—warmer weather meant cleaner people (thanks to spring bathing), and a June wedding left time for a summer birth before the fall harvest.

While Saturdays are still the most popular day to tie the knot, Fridays and Sundays are gaining popularity, especially for those planning weekend-long celebrations or looking to stretch the budget.

Still, June holds its charm, and as we move through the heart of wedding season, there's something extra special about a summertime ceremony surrounded by sunshine, flowers, and the joy of fresh beginnings.

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