What Kids Know About Spring that Adults Forget
Kids seem to understand something about spring that many adults forget. They don’t need a calendar to tell them the season has changed. They notice it right away, and not in some grand, dramatic way.
They notice it in
puddles, in worms on the sidewalk, in dandelions popping up where no one planted them, in the first evening they can stay outside a little longer, and in the sudden joy of riding a bike again without needing a coat, gloves, and determination. To kids, spring isn’t just a season. It’s an invitation.
Adults, on the other
hand, often move through spring with a different mindset. We notice the mud tracked into the house, the weeds in the yard, the rain that interferes with plans, and the pollen on the car. We see chores. We see what needs to be cleaned up, trimmed back, or dealt with.
Kids see possibility. They don’t look at a puddle and think about wet shoes. They look at it and want to jump in. They don’t complain about worms appearing after a rain. They crouch down and study them like they’ve discovered something amazing. (Worms are kind of amazing, by the way!)
Dandelions are another perfect example. Adults tend to see them as weeds that disrupt a nice lawn. Kids often see little bouquets, wishes waiting to be blown into the air, or bright yellow signs that everything is waking up again. A child can pick a handful of dandelions and feel like they’ve gathered treasure. Somewhere along the line, many of us lose that ability to see ordinary things as delightful.
The same goes for bike rides and staying outside until dusk. Kids know there’s something special about those longer spring evenings. They can feel it. The light stretches out, dinner gets eaten a little later, and the air has that softer, milder feel that makes no one want to go in just yet. They understand how good it feels to keep playing, pedaling, exploring, and simply being
outside while the sky slowly changes.
Adults may appreciate that kind of evening too, but we often let ourselves be pulled back indoors by routines, screens, and responsibilities before we fully enjoy it.
What kids know about spring is that it isn’t meant to be overthought. It’s meant to be noticed. It’s meant to be felt. It’s in muddy shoes, grass stains, bicycles left on the lawn, and the excitement of finding the first dandelion or hearing birds at the end of the day. Kids welcome spring with curiosity and enthusiasm, while adults sometimes greet
it with a mental checklist.
Maybe we don’t need to become children again, but we could certainly borrow a little of their perspective. We could let ourselves enjoy the puddles without thinking first about the cleanup. We could admire the dandelions before deciding they need to be pulled.
We could take an evening walk, linger outside a little longer, and remember that spring doesn’t only bring chores. It brings wonder too. Kids seem to know that instinctively. The rest of us might need the reminder.
Enjoying my newsletter? Please REPLY and let me know! Also, please forward this newsletter to
5 of your family members and/or friends and share the love!
Here's what just one GON reader had to say...
"Love your daily reminders!"
-- Cheryl Grimshaw