Ask Maria
"Hi Maria, Help! Please reply on what to do with interruptions while I do my chores, organizing, and/or sewing."
-- Eva Hathcock
Response from Maria
Dear Eva,
I hear you loud and clear. Interruptions can turn a productive afternoon into a frustrating mess, especially when you’re deep into something like organizing or sewing.
You're not alone—this is a common issue for many readers, and I’m so
glad you reached out. Here are a few solutions:
1. Set a Timer for “Focus Blocks”
Let others in your household know that for the next 25–45 minutes, you’re “off-limits.” Use a kitchen timer or app and let it be known that when the timer is
on, you’re in the zone.
After that, take a short break where you do allow interruptions or check-ins. This method works especially well for sewing and organizing sessions that require concentration.
2. Create a Visual Do-Not-Disturb Cue
Sometimes a closed door isn’t enough. Try hanging a fun sign (like “Sewing in Session” or “Organizing—Enter at Your Own Risk!”) to gently remind others that you’re working on something.
If you’re in a shared space, wearing headphones—even if no music is playing—can signal you’re focused.
3. Keep a Pad for Incoming Thoughts and Requests
Interruptions aren’t always people—sometimes they’re your own thoughts! If you suddenly remember you need to buy thread, call someone back, or clean something else, jot it down quickly on a nearby notepad and return to your task. You’ll feel less anxious
knowing it won’t be forgotten.
4. Build Buffer Time into Your Day
Expecting zero interruptions may be unrealistic, so try padding your schedule. If you plan a 30-minute chore, block out 40–45 minutes. That way, if something comes up,
you’re not thrown completely off course.
5. Use the Phrase “Let’s Talk About That in a Bit”
When you’re in the middle of something and a family member or housemate brings up a non-urgent topic, try saying, “Let’s talk about that in a bit.”
It’s a kind, respectful way to protect your focus while showing you value the conversation. Just be sure to follow up—doing so builds trust and helps everyone feel heard.
Wishing you focused, uninterrupted time and lots of joy in your organizing and sewing!
Warmly,
Maria
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